Living and Loving Introspection
As always, this is an incredibly self-centered post. The site is called “Tinu Stuff” people. Get used to it, LOL! Seriously though, the reason I have a special site that acts as the public side of my personal journal is for three reasons. First, I like to keep written records, both on and offline, of how I feel, what I think and how I came to certain conclusions, etc., to help with my own evolution. I’m always attempting to make myself into the best me. This helps. Second, pure entertainment value. It amazes me how many people just enjoy seeing what is in someone else’s mind and heart. Third, I’m hoping that some small part of this blog will be a help, inspiration or warning to someone. Even if it’s one person. I know that there have been several times where reading someone else’s thoughts on a situation they were in helped me immensely. Today I’m thinking about what would make my relationships in the future more successful. And I’ve come up with several things. First, in the beginning, I have to start keeping all thoughts about the situation to myself unless someone should expressly ask. I’ve become conscious of the fact that I vacillate between complete radio silence and bursts of emotion, and that it’s potentially quite unnerving. It’s usually because when I meet people, I watch and circle them for weeks or months before actually engaging. Then, in the few circumstances where I feel I’ve met someone