Why am I keeping all these beautiful thoughts and feelings to myself? Why not share them with the person(s) they’re about? (You did know I meant my love questions, right? ;) ) For Flame in particular, my hopes for having something with him, are quite frankly, dim. It’s a long shot at best, and so I’m waiting for the optimal revelation time, for the following reasons. 1. I’m still sick. No one I’d love is that shallow that they’d love me less because of it, but as a side effect of not having the energy to get out of bed some days, I don’t feel my best. I lost 80 pounds last year, but I’m still really sensitive about anyone taking my picture. I’m not ME yet. And I can’t be with anyone until I’m the real me again, unless they originally knew me as this me, you know? Physically, mentally and emotionally. I’m not going to wait until I feel like I’m perfect. First that will never happen! But I do want to wait until I’ve recovered enough to have normal days, and share them with someone else. 2. Because I’m not a selfish bitch. His situation is complex. It won’t be forever, but it is now. And no, he’s not a bigamist or anything like that. And I don’t want to be an additional complication to anyone’s life. Not just for him but for my own, selfish reasons. (Yeah, I’m kinda selfish in this regard. Still not a

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