This article on Mashable, Why Mainstream Social Networks Complicate Our Identities [OPINION], made me think about how I used to want to divorce the poetic, creative me, from my work self, from my family me, because the way I am with different groups conflicts with the way those people see me. In the article, the author said: How Google+ Makes Social Networking More Confusing The Google+ approach aims to simplify managing relationships, but ultimately fails because it works against people’s natural behavioral patterns. This is why Google+ faces an uphill challenge to adoption. Google+ allows users to define their own “circles” of contacts, like “High School Classmates,” “Family” or “Classic Car Fans.” The platform seeks to merge distinct interaction groups together into a unified experience. Users spend time creating the circles they want to share with, a tactic that helps push information into your contacts’ streams. But the system breaks down once you try to consume content from a variety of different sources in your own stream. Suddenly, college roommates are mixed in with professional contacts, or people you’ve never actually met. This requires additional cognitive effort of the user to filter content by relationship, rendering the experience frustrating and confusing. To which my response was: Some good insights. On G+ though, it seems like a fixable problem as far as consuming content. They’d just have to give the option of letting the user pick – and be able to change – a default circle to view. If you’re not

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I won’t go into the details of why I said this, because the subject was in a private Google+ conversation. I leave it here partly as a reminder to myself about how my mind operates when it’s working properly:   You’ll succeed. Completely put out of your mind that there’s any chance that you won’t. The only people who don’t succeed are the people who quit before they get there because they weren’t willing to make the necessary changes to get there. Assume there’s no alternative. We never say things like “if I can breathe, I’ll be there tomorrow.” We assume we can breathe, so we do. The backdrop of this goes into the belief system I’ve discussed before, which is learning not to feel that the progress of your life goals has to be achieved solely through your energy. In other words, manifesting your destiny is done through your spiritual handshake, if you will, with whatever you believe the higher power to be. (Nature/ Science/ God / the Universal Soul / your Super-Mind.) So for an atheist, it might be the power of your mind to achieve more that the labor of your hands. For me, what I believe God is works with me and the combined thought energy of other people to magnify the effect of the labor we create through our free will as humans. Taking the proper action at the right time with all the resources you have available, rather than just your own two hands,

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